Ask Millie: Waiting Whitney


Dear Millie,

I recently went on a date with this guy from a dating app. We had talked for about a month before the date. I thought our date was going great but he hasn’t messaged me back. It’s been a few days since we’ve been on our date.

I’ve messaged him once already but he didn’t reply. I don’t really want to message him again since then I’ll look desperate. 

This is making me rethink how our date went. Did I do something to upset him? Is there something wrong with me? Am I not pretty enough? 

I don’t know what to do Millie. Please help.


Waiting Whitney


Dear Waiting Whitney,

It sucks having a guy ghost you, but don’t blame yourself. No one deserves to be ignored like that.

You shouldn’t let this negatively impact your self-image. It’s his fault he missed out on the opportunity to get to date you. 

It’s time to move on and start trying to find someone new. I’m sure there are guys out there who won’t ghost you after the first date. Dust yourself off and keep trying. 

Yours Truly,